Afraid you’ll
end up being just a friend with the girl you like? Use these tips on how to
avoid the friend zone if you want to get into her pants. The friend zone is a
tricky place to fall in. You may be trying hard to get close to a girl, close
enough to tell her that you like her, but one fine day she turns around and
tells you that you’re such a great friend, or worse, you’re
just like a brother to her.
Ever been there? I hope you
haven’t.
Guys find themselves falling
into the friend zone almost all the time.
It’s frustrating and
demeaning, and at times, inevitable. You may get really close to a girl with
all the hopes of getting into her pants, but somewhere along the way, you may
have taken a few detours that led you right into the friend zone.
What is a friend zone?
A friend zone is a happy
place for a girl. It’s a place where she and a guy can sit together and talk
about anything and get real friendly with each other.
For a guy, a friend zone is
the worst place to be in, especially when he likes the girl who behaves like a
friend. In a friend zone, the two involved friends of the opposite sex are just
friends and nothing more. They project no sexual interest towards each other
and behave in a completely platonic manner. But can any guy ever be friends
with a girl he finds sexually attractive? Or course not. He can try to be a
friend with the hope of getting an occasional cuddle or a warm boob pressing
hug now and then, but he’s always going to be
just being a friend while she dates every other guy in the yearbook.
How do guys end up falling
into the friend zone?
A guy falls into a friend
zone for very obvious reasons. He behaves like a friend. And he never lets the
girl know that he has more than friendly intentions on his mind. And soon
enough, the girl loses all realization of the fact that this guy has a package
down there. And he just becomes another sexless thing she hangs out with all
the time as a platonic friend.
So why do some guys end up as
friends instead of boyfriends or sex buddies? Here’s why.
#1 they get too close. Getting too close to a girl on platonic grounds will
never help you. You may assume that it’s the easiest way to
get a girl to know you better. She’ll definitely get to
know you better, but only as a friend.
#2 No sexual chemistry. If a guy likes a girl, he has to make it subtly
obvious that he’s sexually interested in her. If a guy behaves like a
pushover and a doormat, no girl will feel even a tingle of sexual chemistry.
#3 The girl’s not attracted to the guy. This sucks, but this is the most common scenario.
The guy’s probably creepy, annoying or just not good enough to be her
boyfriend.
#4 The guy thinks she’s too good for him. At times, a guy may genuinely believe that the girl
he likes is way too good for him. And instead of hitting on her, he secretly
lusts for her, but gives up on pursuing her. Could you ever live with yourself
by just being the friend of a sexy girl who dates every other guy but you?
#5 He always play the true friend card. It works in the movies all the time. The girl has a
best friend who’s always there for her. She goes ahead and dates every
single guy in the world, and finally, at the end of the movie she sees her true
love in the form of her best friend. How touching! And that’s why they call it
the movies. In real life, you can’t become a girl’s
boyfriend just by behaving like a best friend. How to avoid getting into the
friend zone it’s really easy to avoid the friend zone. All you need to do is
drop a few hints now and then to let her know that you’re
really into her.
Use these easy tips to get the message across and get
her to desire you while you’re at it.
#1 Be a friend without behaving like her other friends.
Don’t
talk nonsense for hours or spend time talking about her problems in life. Talk
about places she visits, movies she’s watched, and her plans for the weekend.
Talk date talk and she’ll sense the chemistry
in the air.
#2 Try to talk to her when ‘alone.
If her other friends are
around, talk to her if you must or just avoid her. You can’t really hit on a
girl when she’s surrounded by a bevy of friends. But when you find her alone,
make sure you turn on your charm and impress her. See her alone? Chat her up.
And if one of her friends come by, grumble audibly in a funny manner and say
something like “just when I thought I was going to get some alone time
with you, this guy pops up out of nowhere!”
and just laugh. She’ll be confused and wonder if you’re
being serious or just joking.
But she’ll get the hint that
you like spending time with her alone. Make it obvious that you like spending
time with her in whatever way possible, but don’t
ask her out or tell her you like her just yet.
#3 Compliment her when she deserves it.
Flatter her pants off. If she looks good, tell
her she looks hot. If you see a hint of cleavage and she catches you staring,
just laugh, apologize and tell it you couldn’t resist it. Add a few funny sexual
remarks and you’ll never get into the friend zone.
#4 Touch her and treat her like your girlfriend.
But do it respectfully
though. Clasp her hand while crossing the street and open doors for her when it’s
just the both of you. Make her feel like a queen, and she’ll love the
attention. But when her friends are around, don’t
give her any preferential treatment. Let her realize that you’re
special to her only when it’s just the two of
you.
#5 Make her feel special and exclusive.
Gift her something small and
personal, but tell her to keep it a secret. When you create secrets, you build
sexual chemistry and suspense which leads to romance.
#6 Ask her out and change the topic.
When you’re talking to her
for a while, ask her out for lunch or coffee. See how she responds. But within
a second, change the topic. Don’t wait for her to answer. It’ll seem like a
joke, but it’ll still make her wonder if you really do want to date her. Don’t
make things awkward by waiting a while before saying something else. Keep it
simple, keep it funny and yet reveal all the dirty thoughts in your mind, and
change the topic immediately.
Wondering how to avoid the
friend zone? Just understand these pointers and use these tips. You’ll never
fall into the friend zone with any girl ever again!
#DON_DAVE
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